The Dating Shit Show: Ever been on a date recently and thought what the actual f**k? Me too my friend, me too. Enough so it inspired me to start a blog. I’ve been on my fair share of horror shows, some dates where planning what you’re having for lunch the next day is more exciting than the conversation you’re enduring with the guy who hasn’t stopped talking about his favourite interest: himself. Or the one that was so bad in bed you had to finish yourself off after he fell asleep. We’ve all been there, far too many times. I’m here to share my experience in the dating jungle and shed a little positivity and humour on some ever so grim aspects involved in dating.
Dating nowadays can be hard and tough to navigate and sometimes it’s what can only be described as a downright shit show, nevertheless every experience is teaching you something, you just have to figure out what it is. Failed relationships bring new perspectives and give you the opportunity to learn more about yourself and most importantly about what it is that you really want. I plan to take my plethora of experience in the jungle of dating in 2019; my many dodgy dating decisions and my many questionable relationship choices, I plan to take it all and I plan to turn it into something fabulous. Sometimes we get so caught up thinking about how we can change the situation, we’re mistaken. All we need to focus on is our perspective towards each terrible date or breakup or crappy situation we may find ourselves in. By changing your perspective, consequently you have the potential change the situation.
The jungle: Between ghosting, breadcrumbing, spanking, sexual limits and of course our beloved essential dating tool; our good friend Tinder. Somewhere in between all of this, we’re trying to navigate our way through relationships in love, life, friendships and at work. Each day learning new things about ourselves and each day working towards our goals accompanied by the excellent and inspiring people we’ve surrounded ourselves with, the kind that inspire you to be the best possible version of yourself. Dating in 2019, trust me, it’s a jungle out here. But as I said, with the right perspective you can take control of the decisions you make and the people you’re looking to meet.
The orgasmic 30’s: Personally, I find being a single female in my 30s to be the best and by far the most orgasmic time of my life so far. It’s exhilirating not knowing all of the things I’ve yet to achieve and not knowing what relationships I may stumble upon, no matter the permanence. I’ve had some wonderful relationships, some terrible, some heartbreaking, some exhilirating and each and every single one taught me something. Just because somebody may end up hurting you that doesn’t make their appearance in your life any less important. Maybe they showed up only to teach you something, to teach you strength, to teach you what to avoid, what to run from or what you consider to be treated well or maybe they showed up purely to shower you with orgasms.
An idea of what to expect; a lack of balls, things that are hard to swallow, being aware of what takes your energy; fleeting feelings; ghosting, breadcrumbing, sex, friends with lots of benefits, orgasms… and plenty more.
Inspired by all the fierce and badass females I’m surrounded by.
The Dating Shit Show 
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