French kissing: It’s a pretty widely believed fact that the French possess some extra special skills when it comes to all things related to sex, amour and romance. The so called French kiss wasn’t even thought up by the French, it was thought up by the Brits after seeing the French kiss with tongue whilst saying goodbye to their girlfriends. For us, it seemed to exotic and sensual that we labelled it to the French. So what is this quality about the French that makes us think of them as so romantic? Is it just a stereotype? Or is it true that we could all learn a few things about sex from the French?
Is it just a stereotype? In order to answer this question, I went in search of research and I have to say, although it might be a stereotype, well it’s a stereotype for a reason and the reason is the passion for all things related to physical touch that they seem to have. In the end a lot of our beliefs and behaviours come from our culture and from our surroundings. Sex is not such a taboo topic in France, at least not as much as it is in my culture, in fact it’s openly talked about, as it should be. I think there are a few things to be learned from the French when it comes to all things sexual. I don’t like to make generalizations as it’s impossible to know that all French lovers are incredible in bed, based on my experience with different nationalities, you can never be sure. There are plenty of jackhammers and head pushers out there, in every country. What I found is that they seem to be more primal when it comes to sex, it’s not only sex, it’s an entire body experience to be lived and most importantly enjoyed.
Le français: my experience with one particular français can be summarized in one word; primal. It’s not simply having sex, far from it. It’s passionate, filthy and orgasmic and it’s an entire body experience. Orgasms are pretty much guaranteed, so far I’ve never left unsatisfied. I’ve had a lot of great sex with lots of different nationalities and have left feeling extremely satisfied, but there is something about the French and the way they touch and kiss, I never get distracted by anything else because the only thing on my mind is pleasure, which can’t be said for all sexual partners. As I said before, at the top of my list for having great sex is respect. Since the first meeting, I felt respected from the start both inside and outside the bedroom, the effect of this means that I can open myself up completely, I trust him completely with my body and with my orgasm so there isn’t much I wouldn’t let him do to me.
Friends with benefits: I used to seek relationships and stable partners, why? Because I never stopped to think that there might be another way that suits me better. Until hitting my 30s, when I realised that I not only enjoy sex, no I absolutely love it, it’s my favourite hobby. I enjoy the variation of exploring different sexual partners immensely, it’s always exciting doing it with someone for the first time. I have a one strike policy so I only repeat with sexual partners who prioritize me and my orgasm and I’ve found quite a few that I greatly enjoying repeating with.
They’re sexy and they know it: A guy who is confident in the bedroom is sexy, a guy who knows exactly how to get you there. With the Frenchie, confidence is not a problem, he knows what he likes and he knows exactly how to sexplore me and my body for hours and orgasms on end. We spent the night in a sex bubble; one of those ones where you can’t take your hands off each other from the moment you enter the front door. Walking up four flights of stairs, losing an item of clothing per floor, one minute in the door and your panties are on the floor.
The right ingredients: He provides me with nights full of all the right ingredients, multiple orgasms, new positions, new ways to explore pleasure, new ways to explore my body, passion and pistachios. I don’t think there’s a part of my body he didn’t touch, there’s definitely not a single part that I wouldn’t let him touch. Sexual compatibility is pretty key if you’re looking to have orgasmic sex and of course a partner who prioritizes your pleasure and not just their own.
My advice: if you do come across a sexy French man, I would highly recommend some sexploration. It’s the perfect combination of passion, touch and kissing, an absolute pleasure fest. I usually leave with multiple orgasms and multiple pleasureable sensations. They just seem to know what they’re doing: from they way they look at you, like you’re a dessert and he’s about to lick the entire plate clean, to the way they kiss, which makes you feel like you want them to rip your clothes off instantly, the way they touch which lets you know they want to enjoy every inch of your body to the way they have sex, which in my experience is not only orgasmic but also pretty bien hecho.
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