I always thought the idea behind having friends with benefits was to enjoy the benefits multiple times, with multiple buddies. After a conversation with a good friend of mine, I realised that maybe having multiple fuck buddies means you’re in the minority. That many people have one or maybe two, but not much more. I either didn’t know the rules or I made up my own rules, but I believe the best way to explore friends with benefits is to enjoy those benefits with various beneficiaries, so feel free to have as many as you desire.
My advice is to find a few friends with benefits who each have something different that they bring to the table. If you are choosing this way of dating, well that might be because you don’t want anything serious, you don’t want any complications or maybe you just love sex with various partners. The beauty of this style of dating is that you don’t have to stick with only one option, choose a few different options who each have something different to offer.
The filthy one – This is the guy that distracts you at work with his dirty pictures, the ones who send you filthy shower pictures before you’ve even opened your emails. The filthy one wants sex just as much or more than you do and he isn’t afraid to communicate that with you. He is the one who will open you up to exploring new sexual experiences, adding extra ingredients and who will not just explore your boundaries, but he will also help you push them a little. He will help you discover new sexual positions, experiences and introduce you to new pleasures.
The rough one – This is the one that has you up against the wall before the door is even closed behind you. His hands are making their way under your skirt before you’ve even had a conversation. This is the throw you down and show you a good time kind of guy, there’s not much need for conversation, the time you spend together is filled with dirty sex and countless orgasms. However, in my experience, the ones that are slightly rougher is bed are usually more sensitive outside the bedroom which usually means after pulling your hair, choking you and slapping your ass, he’ll make you a cup of tea and enjoy your company, balance.
The sensual one – For this one, passion is at the top of the list, it’s all coconut oil and sensual sex. As soon as you open the door, he’s already telling you with a look what he wants to do to you. The sensual ones are usually the best kissers, they put more effort into foreplay than others and your orgasm is always a priority, without fail. In fact, some of these ones enjoy giving pleasure to you more than they enjoy receiving it, if you’re thinking that sounds crazy, I get it, I used to think the same, until I encountered multiple times that these guys are out there and they come fully equipped with skills that will get you to orgasm every single time, multiple times over.
The intriguing one – This is the one that just knows exactly what he’s doing. You don’t need to ask nor show him what to do or where to go, he just knows. These ones are intriguing because of their skill, orgasms are guaranteed and since he knows exactly what he’s doing, you can give him the control, lie back and enjoy all of the dirty things he has planned for you. Due to their wealth of experience in the bedroom, these are the best ones to try new things with, if you find a fuck buddy like this, then you’re onto a winner.
What are the rules? The rules of having friends with benefits is that you get to make up your own rules. How you choose to maintain these relationships is completely up to you, you might wish to have a fuck buddy who doubles up as a friend to have beers with, maybe you prefer to have one that keeps things strictly sexual, you could have a fuck buddy that you also share an emotional connection with, you could have a fuck buddy who you enjoy sharing lovers with or maybe you want a fuck buddy that you only talk to when you want orgasms. However you choose to experience these relationships is up to you, don’t do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or allow anyone to talk you into things you don’t want to do. On the other hand, don’t close yourself off, explore your boundaries, explore new ways of having orgasms, allow them to explore your body and explore theirs too, enjoy the benefits, the dirty sex and without doubt, the orgasms.
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