I always thought the idea behind having friends with benefits was to enjoy the benefits multiple times, with multiple buddies. After a conversation with a good friend of mine, I realised that maybe having multiple fuck buddies means you’re in the minority. That many people have one or maybe two, but not much more. I... Leer más →

¿Que tipos de relaciones hay? Hay varios tipos de relaciones que puedes tener en la vida, tienes que experimentar y encontrar el estilo de relación que más le convenga. Tampoco tiene que ser lo que llamamos lo tradicional, de tener una pareja y comprar una casa. No tengas miedo a explorar la variedad que hay,... Leer más →

What is it about rejection that makes us feel like there’s something in us that is wrong? That when we get rejected that it must be because of us, who we are, our personality traits, something we said or even the way we look. At times rejection can be hard to handle, it can affect... Leer más →

The game: They always say don’t hate the player, hate the game. Personally, I thoroughly enjoy both the players and the game, say what you want about it, but you can’t deny it’s pretty entertaining. Without it, let’s be honest, the dating game would be a little boring. Without it, where everyone just tells you... Leer más →

Fleeting feelings: There are many key ingredients that make a relationship incredible such as respect, affection, encouragement, enthusiasm and of course insatiable sex, permanence however, is not necessarily a key ingredient. Temporary or fleeting relationships can be just as beautiful, because if you’re beautifully optimistic then you would say that nobody ever thinks a relationship... Leer más →

No tengas miedo de estar soltera: tengo muchas amigas que me han dicho muchas veces que tienen miedo de estar soltera o que quieren estar en una relación porque no disfrutan estando solas o prefieren tener la compañía de otra persona y que de alguna manera sería mejor que su propia compañía, a menudo, me... Leer más →

Trust your gut: Sometimes we reach a point where we start to sense something is not quite right, it’s a gut feeling or instinct we could say, that someone is starting to lose interest. Unfortunately at times we have to figure this out for ourselves instead of the other person telling us straight, nowadays we... Leer más →

What is it about the female orgasm that makes it so damn beautiful? At the top of the list of what makes it so damn beautiful is it’s ability to multiply. I used to think multiple orgasms were rare, that they were almost impossible to find, I was lucky if I even had one, I... Leer más →

So Tinder. What a wonderfully f****d up creation that is, isn’t it? Swiping people to the curb like they’re trash, but man it feels disturbingly good doesn’t it. Sitting on the comfort of your sofa with the discomfort of your hideous sunday hangover, silently judging photo after photo. The Sunday afternoon Tinder abyss; we’ve all... Leer más →

The more I date nowadays, the more I realise what a jungle it is. Dating is full of unsaid expectations and assumed reactions because we always seem to go for the date first, maybe have sex later approach. After talking to one of my closest friends about gay dating, he explained to me that it... Leer más →