So Tinder. What a wonderfully f****d up creation that is, isn’t it? Swiping people to the curb like they’re trash, but man it feels disturbingly good doesn’t it. Sitting on the comfort of your sofa with the discomfort of your hideous sunday hangover, silently judging photo after photo. The Sunday afternoon Tinder abyss; we’ve all... Leer más →

The more I date nowadays, the more I realise what a jungle it is. Dating is full of unsaid expectations and assumed reactions because we always seem to go for the date first, maybe have sex later approach. After talking to one of my closest friends about gay dating, he explained to me that it... Leer más →

What makes bad sex? Everyone has their own idea of what constitutes good or bad sex, we don’t all have the same tastes or desires in the bedroom, however there are a select few who are in fact just so terrible that everyone will leave with the exact same feeling; disappointment. There are many things... Leer más →

The beauty of impermanence: Never be put off by the impermanence of the connections you make with people. Their permanence and beauty are not related, one doesnt counteract the other, if anything the impermanence of it all makes it that much more desireable. No matter how fleeting, connecting with people is an incredible feeling, never... Leer más →

Sexual compatibility: It's always exciting to meet and explore new people, new people to be intimate with, to get naked with, to have hot and sweaty sex with and those ones that end up being very sexually compatible with you, with those ones you can get lost in a sex bubble that neither of you... Leer más →

One thing I’ve learned is the importance of the people you surround yourself with and how important they are to how we see ourselves. The really good ones see you through eyes so bright that you feel like you can achieve anything, they encourage you in ways that make you believe all of your dreams... Leer más →

I think we can only really figure out who we are by collecting little pieces of ourselves from each person we cross paths with, from those who stay and equally from those who don’t. The word ex can have so many negative connotations and sometimes for good reason. But there are other times where there... Leer más →

We've all been there, both as the receiver and as the giver, it's ever so familiar nowadays, when the other person loses interest but instead of openly telling you that, they might choose to string you along, otherwise known as breadcrumbing or they might disappear into thin air, otherwise known as ghosting or they’ll tell... Leer más →

Why is it that the first thought we usually have of something unknown is fear, our first instinct is to fear change or fear what we don’t know. We shouldn't let our fears grow stronger than our desire for change or our desire for something new. Life is never more exciting than when it's changing... Leer más →

One of my exes once suggested that he might be the one that got away from me, so it got me thinking. The one that got away, even that term is all about the other person, but that’s not what’s important. What about you? Maybe you’re the one that got away, the one that left... Leer más →